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Paul David Toti, II

March 12, 1960 — August 20, 2023


Paul David Toti, II age 63, of Utica, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday August 20, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center with the support of his loving family.

He was born in Utica on March 12, 1960, a son of Barbara Myers Toti and the late Paul David Toti. He was educated in local schools and graduated from TR Proctor High School. Paul honorably served our country from 1980- 1982 in the US Army.

He was employed as a learning and respite caretaker at the Heritage Farms in Bouckville, until his retirement.

Surviving are his mother Barbara Toti; his soulmate and longtime love, AnnaMarie Ollerenshaw; one son and daughter-in-law Paul and Alicia Toti of Holland Patent; two daughters and sons-in-law Angela and Devin Dyer of Utica and Andrea and Joseph Scialdone of Deerfield; four sisters and two brothers-in-law Pamela and Edward George of VA., Karen and Carmelo Chirico of LA., Kelly Ann Toti of SC and Jamie M. Toti of SC; 5 grandchildren Nathan Tubilewicz, Sophia Toti, Hunter Toti, Nicolas and Salvatore Scialdone and nieces, nephews and cousins.

Private funeral services will be at the convenience of the family.

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