The Importance and Benefits of Estate Planning

September 1, 2025

The Importance and Benefits of Estate Planning


When most people hear the words estate planning, their first thought is often, “That’s only for the wealthy.” The truth is, estate planning is not just about mansions, vast savings accounts, or complicated investments. It’s about ensuring your wishes are honored, protecting your loved ones, and bringing peace of mind—no matter the size of your estate.


At Scala, Roefaro & Karboski Funeral Home, we often speak with families during some of the most difficult moments of their lives. We see firsthand how much easier things are when thoughtful planning has been done in advance. While pre-arranging funeral services is one important step, estate planning is another critical piece of preparing for the future.

This article will help explain what estate planning is, why it matters for everyone, and how it can benefit you and your family.


What Is Estate Planning?

Estate planning is the process of arranging how your assets—everything you own—will be managed and distributed after your passing. Assets can include things like:

  • Your home or other real estate
  • Vehicles
  • Bank accounts, retirement accounts, and investments
  • Life insurance policies
  • Personal possessions, such as family heirlooms or jewelry


But estate planning is not just about “who gets what.” It can also involve:

  • Naming a guardian for minor children
  • Making decisions about your healthcare in the event you can’t speak for yourself
  • Choosing someone to manage your financial affairs if you become incapacitated
  • Setting aside resources for charitable giving


In short, estate planning is about ensuring that your values, priorities, and loved ones are protected.



Why Estate Planning Is Important for Everyone

You don’t need to be wealthy to benefit from estate planning. In fact, those who assume they don’t need it may unintentionally leave behind confusion, stress, or even conflict for their families. Here’s why estate planning matters:


It Reduces Stress for Loved Ones

After a death, grieving families are often faced with a flood of decisions. Without estate planning, relatives may have to guess what you would have wanted—or even argue about it. A well-prepared plan eliminates uncertainty and gives your family clear guidance.


It Ensures Your Wishes Are Honored

Whether it’s choosing who inherits a family heirloom, ensuring your spouse can stay in the family home, or designating charitable donations, estate planning allows you to make your wishes known.


It Helps Avoid Family Disputes

Unfortunately, disagreements over money and property are common after a loved one passes. A clear, legally binding estate plan reduces the chance of conflict by setting expectations ahead of time.


It Protects Children and Dependents

If you have minor children, an estate plan allows you to name a guardian—someone you trust—to care for them should the unexpected occur. Without this, the court may make the decision without your input.


It Saves Time and Money

When someone passes without a plan, their estate typically goes through a lengthy legal process called probate. Proper planning can streamline or even avoid probate, saving your family time, money, and stress.

Common Misconceptions About Estate Planning

Many people delay or avoid estate planning because of common myths. Let’s address a few:


“I don’t have enough money for an estate plan.”
Even if you only own a car, a bank account, or a few treasured possessions, you still have an estate worth planning for.


“I’m too young to need an estate plan.”
Life is unpredictable. Estate planning isn’t about expecting the worst—it’s about being prepared. Young adults, especially those with children, often benefit the most from estate planning.


“My family knows what I want.”
Even if your family has a general idea, having your wishes in writing provides clarity and legal backing.


“Estate planning is too complicated or expensive.”
While certain situations may require an attorney, basic planning—like creating a will or healthcare directive—can be straightforward and surprisingly affordable.


Key Components of an Estate Plan

A thorough estate plan can include several documents, tailored to your needs. Some of the most common are:


A Will

A legal document that outlines how your assets should be distributed and who should care for your minor children.


A Trust

A legal arrangement that allows you to transfer assets to beneficiaries in a structured way, often avoiding probate and offering tax benefits.


Power of Attorney

This names someone to make financial or legal decisions on your behalf if you’re unable to do so.


Healthcare Proxy or Advance Directive

This outlines your medical care preferences and designates someone to make healthcare decisions for you if you can’t communicate.


Beneficiary Designations

Many accounts (like life insurance and retirement accounts) allow you to name beneficiaries directly. Ensuring these are up to date is an important part of estate planning.


The Benefits of Estate Planning

Estate planning is not just a legal exercise—it’s an act of love and responsibility. Here are some of the benefits:

  • Peace of Mind: Knowing your affairs are in order relieves anxiety for you and your family.
  • Clarity for Loved Ones: Your family can focus on healing rather than making difficult decisions.
  • Financial Security: Estate planning can help minimize taxes, maximize benefits, and ensure resources are distributed efficiently.
  • Continuity of Care: For children, elderly parents, or special needs dependents, estate planning ensures ongoing support.
  • Charitable Legacy: If giving back to your community or church is important, estate planning allows you to leave a lasting impact.


When to Begin Estate Planning

The best time to begin estate planning is now. Waiting until “someday” often means waiting too long. Major life events—marriage, divorce, birth of a child, buying a home, or retirement—are all natural moments to review or update your plan.

Remember, estate planning is not a one-time task. It’s wise to revisit your plan every few years, or whenever your circumstances change.


How to Get Started

If you’re unsure where to begin, here are some simple steps:

  1. Take Inventory: List your assets, accounts, and possessions.
  2. Think About Your Priorities: Who do you want to provide for? What values matter most?
  3. Consult a Professional: An estate planning attorney can guide you through the legal requirements in New York and tailor a plan to your situation.
  4. Communicate with Family: Let your loved ones know your intentions and where to find important documents.
  5. Keep Documents Safe and Accessible: Store originals in a secure place, and give copies to trusted individuals.


Estate Planning and Funeral Planning: Working Together

While estate planning and pre-arranging funeral services are different, they work hand-in-hand. Estate planning addresses financial, legal, and guardianship matters, while pre-planning your funeral ensures your final arrangements reflect your wishes. Together, they create a complete plan that protects your loved ones from uncertainty and stress.


A Final Word of Encouragement

Estate planning may feel intimidating, but it is one of the most important gifts you can give your family. Regardless of your age, income, or family situation, having a plan in place provides security, dignity, and peace of mind.


At Scala, Roefaro & Karboski Funeral Home, we are here to support our community not only through compassionate care at life’s end, but also by encouraging proactive steps that ease the burden on loved ones. Estate planning is one of those steps.

If you have questions about how pre-arrangement and estate planning can complement each other, our funeral directors would be honored to sit down with you and guide you with care and compassion.

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